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Sunday, May 3, 2009

are your Friendship in good state

Why do we need friends? Friend is someone that can help we shape who we are as a persons, that's why we need friend. What is friendship?, ladies and gentleman, Friendship is our concern to our friends which might reasonably understood as a kind of love. I love my friends. But loving our friends is imperfect without a bond of trust. Yes trust. What is trust? Why should we trust our friends? Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Ladies and gentleman, A person who we call friend is not our foe or rival, we must trust our friend because undoubtedly they were central to our lives and this is because they who will shape us as we will be concerning about them.

Ladies and Gentlemen,

As I tell you before loving our friends without trusting them is imperfect for a good friendship. Why did I say that? When we love our friends, we will eventually concern about them, about their life, feelings and health, whether in physically or mentally. We will listen to their problems and help them. But then, if we do not trust them as our friend, we will be the one who have the most problems, which is because we will fell ignored and rejected and sad. This will happen if we did not trust our friend, we will be afraid to have a conversation with them, a conversation about our life. We will see our friends as rival as we did not telling the truth. We will be lying to them about our self or faking our self to be accepted by them. And mostly we will start to dislike them as we fell ignored and rejected by them.

When this happen, our standpoint and self-confident will fall, this is because a friend is the most close and intimate person after or before our family. We share everything with them, secrets, stories or activities. We laugh and cry with them, and then after we put aside our feeling of trust to them, we will start to fall apart, weather in work or education.

So, ladies and gentleman, the bad relationship of friendship could ruin our life from good to bad. As we only need to learn to trust and love our friend in the same time to hinder the bad relationship and have a good friendship.


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